private string[,] GetListViewItmeValue(int rows, int cols)
        {
            string[,] tempStr = new string[rows, cols];//二维数组:保存LV控件的文本信息
            for (int i = 0; i < rows; i++)
            {
                for (int j = 0; j < cols; j++)
                {
                    byte[] vBuffer = new byte[256];//定义一个临时缓冲区
                    int vNumberOfBytesRead = 0;


                    NMLISTVIEW[] data1 = new NMLISTVIEW[1];
                    NMITEMACTIVATE[] data = new NMITEMACTIVATE[1];
                   
                  
                    WriteProcessMemory(process, pointer, Marshal.UnsafeAddrOfPinnedArrayElement(data, 0), Marshal.SizeOf(typeof(NMITEMACTIVATE)), ref vNumberOfBytesRead);
                 
                    const int NM_FIRST = 0;
                    const int NM_CLICK = NM_FIRST-2;
                    const int LVN_FIRST = -100;
                    const int LVN_ITEMCHANGED=(LVN_FIRST-1);
                    const int BM_CLICK = 0x00F5;
                    const int WM_NOTIFY = 78;
                    const int WM_CAPTURECHANGED=533;
                    const int WM_SETFOCUS = 7;
                    const int WM_LBUTTONDOWN=513;
                    const int WM_LBUTTONUP=514;
                    hwnd = 789788;
                    int buttonHandle = 1051934;


                    data[0].hdr.code = NM_CLICK;
                    data[0].hdr.hwndFrom = hwnd;
                    data[0].hdr.idFrom = 1000;
                    data[0].iItem = i;
                    //SendMessage(buttonHandle,BM_CLICK,0,0);//可以触发BM_CLICK事件
                    //SendMessage(hwnd,WM_CAPTURECHANGED, 0, 0);//可以响应
                    //SendMessage(hwnd, WM_SETFOCUS, 0, 0);//可以相应
                    SendMessage(593170,WM_NOTIFY, data[0].hdr.idFrom, Marshal.UnsafeAddrOfPinnedArrayElement(data, 0).ToInt32());
                  
                    //从pointer指向的内存地址开始读取数据,写入缓冲区vBuffer中
                    //ReadProcessMemory(process, ((int)pointer + Marshal.SizeOf(typeof(LVITEM))), Marshal.UnsafeAddrOfPinnedArrayElement(vBuffer, 0), vBuffer.Length, ref vNumberOfBytesRead);
                    ReadProcessMemory(process, ((int)pointer + Marshal.SizeOf(typeof(NMITEMACTIVATE))), Marshal.UnsafeAddrOfPinnedArrayElement(vBuffer, 0), vBuffer.Length, ref vNumberOfBytesRead);
                    string vText = Encoding.Unicode.GetString(vBuffer, 0, (int)vNumberOfBytesRead); ;
                    tempStr[i, j] = vText;
                }
            }
            VirtualFreeEx(process, pointer, 0, MEM_RELEASE);//在其它进程中释放申请的虚拟内存空间,MEM_RELEASE方式很彻底,完全回收
            CloseHandle(process);//关闭打开的进程对象
            return tempStr;
        }

    NMITEMACTIVATE nmia = {0};

    nmia.hdr.hwndFrom = GetDlgItem(IDC_LIST1)->m_hWnd; // SysListView32 控件的句柄
    nmia.hdr.idFrom = IDC_LIST1; // SysListView32 控件的 ID
    nmia.hdr.code = NM_CLICK;   // 通知代码
    nmia.iItem = 3;  // 单击的行的序号
    nmia.iSubItem = 0;   // 单击的项的序号，设置为 0 即可。
    
    // 下面都设置为 0 即可。
    nmia.uNewState = 0;
    nmia.uOldState = 0;
    nmia.uChanged = 0;
    nmia.ptAction.x = 0;
    nmia.ptAction.y = 0;
    nmia.lParam = 0;
    nmia.uKeyFlags = 0;
    
    // m_hWnd 为 SysListView32 控件的父窗口句柄。
    ::SendMessage(m_hWnd,WM_NOTIFY,(WPARAM)nmia.hdr.idFrom,(LPARAM)(&nmia));

[DllImport("user32.DLL")]
 private static extern int SendMessage(int hWnd, int Msg, int wParam, int lParam);

private struct NMHDR{ 
            public int hwndFrom;
            public int idFrom;
            public int code; 
        }

private struct NMITEMACTIVATE{
            public NMHDR hdr;
            public int iItem;
            public int iSubItem;
            public int uNewState;
            public int uOldState;
            public int uChanged;
            public Point ptAction;
            public string lParam;
            public int uKeyFlags;
        }

　　　　　　　　　　　　
                    NMITEMACTIVATE[] data = new NMITEMACTIVATE[1];
                    hwnd = 394998;                 //主窗口(Form1)句柄
                    data[0].hdr.code     = NM_CLICK;//通知代码
                    data[0].hdr.hwndFrom = 198392;//listview控件的句柄
                    data[0].hdr.idFrom   = 198392;//listview控件的id
                    data[0].iItem = 3;//单击的行号
                    data[0].iSubItem = 0;//单击的项的序号
                    data[0].uNewState = 0;                    
                    data[0].uOldState = 0;
                    data[0].uChanged = 0;
                    data[0].ptAction.X = 0;
                    data[0].ptAction.Y = 0;
                    data[0].lParam = null;
                    data[0].uKeyFlags = 0;                    

                    SendMessage(
                                hwnd, //主窗口（即Form1）的句柄
                                WM_NOTIFY, 
                                data[0].hdr.idFrom, //listview控件的句柄
                                Convert.ToUInt32(Marshal.UnsafeAddrOfPinnedArrayElement(data, 0))//data变量的地址
                    );

 NMITEMACTIVATE[] data = new NMITEMACTIVATE[1];

                    hwnd = 2296236;                 //主窗口(Form1)句柄
                    data[0].hdr.code     = NM_CLICK;//通知代码
                    data[0].hdr.hwndFrom = hwnd;//listview控件的句柄
                    data[0].hdr.idFrom   = 1572976;//listview控件的id
                    data[0].iItem = 3;//单击的行号
                    data[0].iSubItem = 0;//单击的项的序号
                    data[0].uNewState = 0;                    
                    data[0].uOldState = 0;
                    data[0].uChanged = 0;
                    data[0].ptAction.X = 0;
                    data[0].ptAction.Y = 0;
                    data[0].lParam = null;
                    data[0].uKeyFlags = 0;                    

                    SendMessage(
                                hwnd,               //主窗口（即Form1）的句柄
                                WM_NOTIFY,          
                                data[0].hdr.idFrom, //listview控件的句柄
                                (uint)Marshal.UnsafeAddrOfPinnedArrayElement(data, 0)//data变量的地址
                                //Convert.ToUInt32(Marshal.UnsafeAddrOfPinnedArrayElement(data, 0))
                    );

  /// <summary>
        /// 响应Listview控件的单击事件
        /// </summary>
        /// <param name="sender"></param>
        /// <param name="e"></param>
        private void listView1_MouseClick(object sender, MouseEventArgs e)
        {
            listBox1.Items.Add("第"+listView1.SelectedItems[0].SubItems[0].Text +"项   "+ listView1.SelectedItems[0].SubItems[1].Text + "被单击");
        }

         /// <summary>
        /// 触发WM_NOTIFY
        /// </summary>
        /// <param name="sender"></param>
        /// <param name="e"></param>
        private void button2_Click(object sender, EventArgs e)
        {
            const int NM_FIRST = 0;
            const int NM_CLICK = NM_FIRST - 3;
            const int WM_NOTIFY = 78;
            
            NMITEMACTIVATE[] data = new NMITEMACTIVATE[1];
            data[0].hdr.code        = NM_CLICK;//通知代码
            data[0].hdr.hwndFrom    = this.Handle.ToInt32();            //listview控件的句柄
            data[0].hdr.idFrom      = this.listView1.Handle.ToInt32();  //listview控件的id
            data[0].iItem           = 3;//单击的行号
            data[0].iSubItem        = 1;//单击的项的序号
            data[0].uNewState       = 0;                    
            data[0].uOldState       = 0;
            data[0].uChanged        = 0;
            data[0].ptAction.X      = 0;
            data[0].ptAction.Y      = 0;
            data[0].lParam          = null;
            data[0].uKeyFlags       = 0;
            SendMessage(
                    this.Handle.ToInt32(),
                    WM_NOTIFY,
                    data[0].hdr.idFrom, //listview控件的句柄
                    (uint)Marshal.UnsafeAddrOfPinnedArrayElement(data, 0)//data变量的地址
                );
        }